Why are we so scared of living the life we want to live ? What exactly holds us back ? What stops us from doing that which we love doing ? Why would we rather spend our time cribbing about what we have, than taking hold of things and getting what we want ? Often it is sheer inertia, procrastination, sometimes it is a lack of faith in our ability and at others it is merely a fear of succeeding.. We might crib a lot and yet that is where we develop a comfort zone in our status quo and any change in that is likely to make us unsure of ourselves.. There is no harm once in a while to step out of that comfort zone, egg ourselves and get what we want.. Often what we want isn’t ours’ for we never cared to ask for it !!